A Guide To Choosing The Right Intimate Gift

Whatever the occasion, whatever the mood, say it with a gift. At Coco de Mer, we have gifts that create romance, hint at seduction or scream of eroticism.

If you are looking for a romantic gift, you can't go wrong with luxury lingerie. Opt for a timeless and feminine option like the Seraphine Plunge Bra, Brazilian Knicker, Suspender Belt, and Robe. Present your romantic gift perfectly with a Coco de Mer Gift Box, something she can keep her lingerie in and think of you every time she opens it.

Tempt with touches

You could add some sensuality and drop hints with more intimate offerings, if you so choose. Adding some intimate play accessories such as the Enraptured Figment Massage Candle or the Pure Delight Orgasm Balm hints at wild nights ahead and puts her pleasure first.

It can be your secret

Give a subtle gift of eroticism with intimate jewellery. Diamonds may be forever, but we prefer orgasms - the Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace is discreet, chic and sensual. The additional salacious element to an intimate jewellery gift is that it can be presented and worn out in public with surrounding people none the wiser. The added element of foreplay as your lover wears their eroticism around their neck is the true gift for this piece.

Bring fantasy to life

Go even further with your erotic gifting and tell them exactly what they mean to you. Perhaps you know what their favourite type of sex toy is and want to gift them another, or maybe there is a fantasy of yours you'd like to reveal to them. For a luxurious and intimate gift for her, try the Womanizer Premium. This clitoral massager would make a powerful addition to her collection and is slim enough in profile to use during partnered sex.

Beguile with bondage gifts

Gift something for the both of you to use together for the ultimate intimate offering. Our bondage accessories such as the Coco de Mer Blindfold, Leather Wrist Cuffs and Leather Round Paddle are anticipation-building options that are perfect for a steamy night together.


For more help choosing the perfect lingerie, toy, or bondage piece, read our Guide to Buying Lingerie, our Woman's Guide to Sex Toys and our Beginner's Guide to Bondage.


For curated selections of gifts for birthdays, anniversaries and more, explore our Gift Ideas for the perfect pick whatever the occasion.